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Post by terrilee on Apr 1, 2013 7:55:14 GMT -5
i'm having 2nd thoughts. 
i really dont think i can put them in a sanctuary ,
so im considering just running.
buying a van, getting the kids and just disappearing.
do u live in a rural place, where we can just hide out?
ive been up for about a hour and ive been crying the whole time.
and of course the weather has sucked.
we did get outside yesterday
but today its raining like nuts, and supposed to for 2 more days
and cold.
bit of course on wed, it supposed to get nicer, warmer and sunny,
but they go to jail on wednesday.
so we cant even go out for the last few times.
damn im a ,
i promised the older kids that i would take care of them forever
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Post by devo344a on Apr 1, 2013 10:01:02 GMT -5
Best way to hide is buy a camper come out west where no one knows you and stay in the rv parks no one checks or cares who you are. I live in a 5th wheel and no one checks any one If i had to hide thats what i would do. Sorry you have problems like you do
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Post by justbuggin2 on Apr 1, 2013 11:31:50 GMT -5
you need to go ahead and take care of this now you will be out in no time
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Post by rockynv on Apr 1, 2013 11:46:44 GMT -5
Being a fugitive on the run is no fun. With good behavior who knows you could be out in a few months.
Just so this old guy can get things straight we are not talking about human children here. If we are talking about pets are you sure there is no neighbor or relative that would put them up and feed them for you untill you get back. I know I would take care of my brothers cat or dog if he had a bad spell and taking in his children would be a no-brainer. Just rice and beans more often in the pot along with using the bike more instead of the van unless absolutely required.
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Post by richardthescooter1 on Apr 1, 2013 11:51:41 GMT -5
You are my friend and I would not want to see you mess up, I agree with rockynv, with good behavior, you will be out before you know it ;D
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Post by ramblinman on Apr 1, 2013 11:58:14 GMT -5
i don't know any of the details... sounds like you have a jail sentence and you're concerned about your cats. did i get that part right?
perhaps as someone else mentioned you could find a friend or relative that would look after your pets. that would certainly make it easier on you mentally while your in jail.
i've done my fair share of time in the past and i have also went on the run for 5 years once.
my advice: don't go on the run. it's nearly impossible to live a happy life known you have a jail sentence hanging over your head. and they always seem to catch up with you at the time when things are going great... which just takes you back to square 1.
take care of it now and you can move on with your life with peace of mind.
*if i don't completely understand the situation then disregard my post, lol.
good luck!
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Post by terrilee on Apr 1, 2013 12:01:46 GMT -5
@ bug--yea i know 
@ rock--these are my cat kids. and no one will take in all 6,
the older 3 need to be with each, just cause. they are 12-12-8 so yea they need each others calming effect.
in PA when they say 2-4 years. Thats what they mean!
2 years is early release for good behavior. 4 years if your not.
and like i say... i can handle my part.
just i cant even tell them whats happening and that mom WILL be back.
all they will know is this lady is goona pick 'em up--put 'em in them damn 'carriers', take 'em to a damn vet, get damn shots, then get put in a sanctuary ,, not their house,, with almost 50 other cats.
and they wont know WHY. did mom abandoned us? ??
gott know, they have never lived anywhere else, or with anyone else. so..........
just in case any police are reading---im just kidding about running
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Post by loganhes on Apr 1, 2013 12:33:56 GMT -5
TerriLee,
Forgive me as I am very niave when it comes to the whole jail thing but will it be possible for you to still participate on this forum while you are in the "big house" ? I was thinking that perhaps they have a computer room ? Or perhaps I just watch too much televison.
--Jim
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Post by terrilee on Apr 1, 2013 13:20:29 GMT -5
@ Jim
dude i dont know at all, but i doubt they would give internet access to prisoners.
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Post by Jarlaxle on Apr 1, 2013 14:43:55 GMT -5
I would go for the trial.
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Post by terrilee on Apr 1, 2013 15:35:10 GMT -5
@ JARAXLE
dude, i cant.
if i would get found guilty
the least i will get is 5 years
theres no way in heaven i can be away from the kids for that long.
im cashing in all my IOU's and asking all youns to ask who ever
is upstairs, to let them stay healthy till i can get them back, and have a few more years with 'em.
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Post by gtbike on Apr 1, 2013 15:52:48 GMT -5
Sorry to hear about the troubles but my advice is get it out of the way now...your cats have a lower life expectancy than you do and going on the lam is not going to do you any good and last I checked pets were not able to care for their owners.
All judges have leeway on sentencing.
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Post by jwm1597 on Apr 1, 2013 19:00:27 GMT -5
I would offer to let you hide out here but with what is on my bragging wall you would think I would turn you in(badges, handcuffs's, shoulder patches, etc.)
Just kidding about hidding you. I do not understand all I know about the situation, when child molesters get probation why do you get 2 to 4 for an violation?
Love you and will miss you.
Jerry
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Post by JR on Apr 1, 2013 20:28:42 GMT -5
You don't want to hear what I would do. I do think your smartest move would be to go serve the time andthen just come home.
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Post by SylvreKat on Apr 2, 2013 18:36:14 GMT -5
Add me to agreeing with serving the time. And before you go, give your kids lots of extra loving. Lots of attention. Lots of you. And when Susan (? the sanctuary-lady, right?) comes for them, YOU be the one to put them in the carriers. Love them up like never before while you do. They won't understand, but they should get the idea you're not abandoning them. Cats (mostly) are smart critters. They know love, and they'll know you love them. And they'll know you're not not-loving them and getting rid of them, not if you show them.
Good luck, terri-gal. And if there IS a computer, drop us an occasional post to let us know how things are going.
Just thought--you get phone calls, don't you? Set up a time to call Susan. She can hold the phone near your kitties' ears and let them hear your voice. That way you're still in their lives, letting them know for certain Momma didn't abandon them and still loves them. I know, not the same as you and them being together. But at least it's something for them.
Hang tough, gal. You'll all get through this hard time, and the reunion in two years will be something to see!
>'Kat
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