Shouted at for riding a scooter yesterday, which is weird  By  dirkgently (Read 3,582 times)

Not trying to start a debate. Your your own man/woman and you can think and decide for yourself and no one including me is going to tell you what to do. Going off topic a little, but there were three guys drinking while I was taking a leak in the mens room, and overheard one of them talking about jacking me, while his other friends said no, and that he was crazy. I waited till they left, but when I walked out, the guy who was talking about me said wassup, I didn't say anything and just gave him the dirtiest look. He came up to me with a beer bottle and whacked it over my head. His other two friends then came and got him and held him back. As I started walking away, one of them walked near me and told me to just go home. I got in my car and literally did a 360 when they let him go and he started banging at my window.

At this point I was angry as , but couldn't take on three of them. So I sat in my seat with my hands on the wheel just stopped, but then, he held his arms in the air and said "what?" I floored it over the curb and onto the grass and chased his with my car. All 3 of them kept dodging and helping each other dodge, and throughout all the confusion I didn't turn my lights on and ended up crashing into a tree face first into my steering wheel. The guy starting laughing that I crashed then I went after him again, and ended up leaving and driving myself to a hospital. My whole front
end was trashed with frame damage, and while driving it home after I left the hospital the hood flew up and smashed in my windows. I had to get my head stapled and I had a fracture in my jaw. I ended up getting into 3-4 drinking fights after that which caused the fracture to mess up the symmetry of my face.

I use to have a real bad anger problem and this is just one of those moments. Later on in the day a friend of mine told me that I was stupid and I should have just left, but instead I made it worse. Besides my family who told me I had an anger problem, I never thought that one of my friends would tell me also. This was in my mid-20's and Im now in my early 30's. Im not a kid anymore, and I have a kid in another country from traveling (trying to bring him here, but that's another story. 
What happened to me wasn't because I said something or nothing, it was because the guy was either drunk or all twacked out, but the consequences can be related to the OP's situation had the situation played out differently.

A few months ago I was at the swap meet and there was a guy just looking at something and I saw something I wanted to look at, so I went to try and grab it, and he extended his arm and told me to wait cause he was looking. All I wanted to do was kick him straight in the head and after wards while walking away just sick thoughts running through my mind about stabbing him in the face.

This one other time at my apartment complex, my roomate and I were walking up to the elevator and some dude just speeds up in his car right in front of us and stops. We both looked at him like we wanted to f him up, and my roomate said let's just go, and I told him what the f are you talking about. He just said that it wasnt worth it. That guy was the boyfriend of another tenant in the building coming to pick her up. Next day someone told us he got aressted that night for starting a fight with someone. Walking away bruises my ego a lot, but its just not worth the consequences that can happen, and you really never do know what will happen. There's a difference between letting someone go, defending yourself, and all that, but in the end if theres something we can all agree on that's wrong with society, i would think it would be violence, and you can't be against confrontation and violence, and yet condone or be a part of it.